I've been thinking about this question one of my friends posed. "When do you feel the most like yourself?"
As I mulled it over - I came to two conclusions. One - when I am taking care of children. If you had told me that at 15 - I would have laughed in your face. We're all glad I'm not 15 anymore.
Two - when I have gathered people together and they are all together and I can step back and look at the people the Lord and I brought together and I can look up at Him and say "Hey, thanks, Jesus, for all this."